Read the most recent post; the fellow who had shame with his father should have been gay according to the “shame-trauma-makes-you-gay” theory.

“If all of this is true, homosexuals should be unable to hold jobs, or advance in careers, or do other things which require secure object relations and attachments”.

That doesn’t follow for me. I hold a moderately well-paid job. Notwithstanding I’ve always had the feeling to be “a child in an adult’s world” – a child which couldn’t grow up but has learned to fake a grown-up, doesn’t allow strangers to come too near (and see through the fake) and has found a professional niche where more grown-up abilities (like exerting authority) aren’t necessary.