Thank you. (I’m ex lesbian and am more towards the midddle as well)

I always appreciate what you write and the way you write it but these two posts have especially touched me. Thank you for sharing what so many others feel and how they live but do not talk about. Please be encouraged and feel supported in that which you believe in and the choices you have made and continue to make – they are to be admired and respected.

There are no specifics – each person is differently inspired and motivated thus what works for one person isn’t neccesarily going to work another. That’s why – in my opinion – those ex gay camps are useless and dangerous. And ex gays are not going to crusade (unless of course they are paid, trying to change others, etc…..) when there is soo much animosity (sp??) against us within the church and gay communities both. Why risk it??? Sometimes it just isn’t worth it. If you want to change – seek change. Don’t seek perfection or to be like others – but be a changed person in your perception of what sexuality means to you. If you don’t want to seek change- don’t.