I said to Sonja: It’s not that God hasn’t spoken to our conscience. It’s just that you don’t like what He had to say.

You said: Timothy, Right back at you.

You are quite mistaken, Anon2. I think you should live in accordance with the direction that you believe God is leading you.

Yet Sonja is unwilling to apply the same to me.

Let me ask you, Anon2. Would you rather have me live as I believe God is directing me, or would you have me to live in accordance with your convictions?

(and this time please answer the question rather than complain about what people shouldn’t be allowed to tell you)

Ok… so the fact that the straight porn industry never shows men penetrating each other doesn’t suggest that they are playing to market forces. I disagree, but fair enough.

What about the Bailey study suggesting that bisexual men were usually aroused exclusively by images of men?

http://www.gaypasg.org/GayPASG/PressClippings/2005/Jul/Straight,%20Gay%20or%20Lying-%20Bisexuality%20Revisited.htm

My thoughts? Individuals would not seek a therapist for “collaboration”…that is not a therapist’s function. People have always sought me as a therapist when they are having difficulties functioning in one realm or another…and this gentleman, if he is happy in his duplicity, would likely never seek a therapist to begin with. If he was looking for “collaboration,” he would likely seek out a friend. What would be my function?

Even in couples therapy, my goal is to help * the couple* decide what best suits them, their needs, determine what they want, etc…and sometimes, the resolution is not what I would personally choose for them (if I could).

If he has already made the choice…it seems I would have no work to do.

Right back at you.