http://nymag.com/news/features/bem-esp-2011-3/

According to “Feeling the Future,” a peer-reviewed paper the APA’s Journal of Personality and Social Psychology will publish this month, Bem has found evidence supporting the existence of precognition.

He tested 1,000 people and instead of 50% picking the right curtain that hid the porn, it was 53.1%. Ergo, precognition.

I don’t think relationships is a good criteria. There are a LOT of gay and straight individuals who love sex, but just aren’t interested in any sort of relationship.

So then these so called “players” are not really gay or straight?

Being gay is but one aspect of my existance; it isn’t the sole anchor of my life; I don’t walk around saying, “Hi, I’m gay male Matthew” – I am Matthew first, wine enthuiast second, and somewhere down the list between blogger and choc-a-holic, comes my sexual orientation – yes, it is one component, like I said, but it isn’t the over all driving force of my life – it isn’t my ‘zen’ as you could say.

RE: Ricky

I don’t know about other gay males, but sex is only *ONE* component of a relationship; just as for a straight male, sex is only *ONE* component of the relationship with a female.

I want a long term, stable, relationship with a male; and yes, sex is but one component with in the relationship.

A ‘truely gay’ individual will want ‘all of the above’ – not just wanting to have sex for the sake of having sex; if that is the case, they can screw anything and everyone simply to get an orgasm.

Now, if someone likes going around screwing other guys, then good for him, I certainly won’t get in his way; infact, I might raise my rear and him him have a ride; but at the same time, lets not try to make out that some how, who someone has sex with defines their sexual orientation, because you know as well as I do that who one has sex with has much to do with sexual orientation as it does with availability of a possible partner, societal constructs and the particular fetish/vices of the individual.